Sunday, March 16, 2025
The Day the World Stopped - Reflecting on Covid Teaching 5 Years Later - Part 1
Sunday, March 9, 2025
Let Them Grow
“We want to be known but not to be memorized as though we cannot change.”
- Beth Moore in All My Knotted Up Life: A Memoir
Once, I was making a seating chart for my physics class at the beginning of the year. One of our maintenance staff came in and saw what I was doing.
- "Oh, it's so awful you have Seth Morris (fictional name). He's the worst!" he said.
- I tried to ignore him, but he wasn't the kind of person who read social cues, so he kept talking, going on and on about this young man.
- "I like him a lot," I replied. "He's bouncy, and that takes some energy to manage, but I'll take that over kids who won't participate."
It turned out that the one experience this man had with Seth was when he trashed a bathroom during an extracurricular event when he in the 7th grade. This kid was in my physics class his junior year, which means it had been four years since the event that this man was still holding against him.
I think about that conversation sometimes, wishing I had handled it differently.
- I wish I had said, "Yeah, he was a twerp in the 7th grade. We all were. I'm glad no one holds my 7th grade twerp behavior against me now."
- I wish I had said, "This kid is just trying to grow the heck up, and it would help if you got out of his way."
- I wish I had confronted him in some way that might have prevented him from doing this in the future with other kids.
- Alas, I did not do any of those things. Hindsight is always sharper.
In one of my favorite works by C.S. Lewis, Perelandra, the character known as The Green Lady describes learning in terms of agin. Every time Ransom explains something to her from Earth culture, she thanks him for making her older than she was before. We presume as people get older, they have experiences that teach them new things; her description was simply an alteration of that idea. Seth, from my earlier story, had grown a lot between his 7th grade year and his junior year, and he was no longer a bathroom trasher. In fact, he was likely the one who would have helped you clean up after an event.
The reason this is on my mind today is that I had an interaction earlier this week. There is a young man who comes into the Y every day. I'll call him Kadeen. He's a handful, and he certainly hasn't been taught respectful interactions with adults, but I have seen him exhibit moments of kindness (like giving someone an extra bag of chips that came out of the vending machine). I was mentioning something about finding an item for him in lost and found the day before, and one of the women I work with starting talking about what a horrible kid he was and how he would likely end up behind bars someday. "I know I shouldn't think this way, but I do," she said. I said, "I've seen him have some sweet moments, so there's some good in there somewhere. We'll see what happens as he gets older" She wasn't having it. Setting aside how annoying I find it when people can't agree that I have seen something if they weren't around to see it, I said, "I've known a lot of kids who seemed that way when they were young but changed a lot as they aged." Long after we had ended this conversation, she brought it back up, saying he was one of those people who would have to hit rock bottom before anything changed. This kid is 13 years old! Are we really writing his future off already?
If you know me, you know I am not saying some such nonsense as "There are no bad kids, only bad circumstances." We are all sinners in need of grace and mercy. (Even if you aren't a person of religious faith, you know that we are all more likely to do the wrong thing than the right thing if it serves us better.) What I am saying is that people change, and kids are not yet who they will one day become. I had a shorthand with the teacher next door to me. We used to look at each other and say, "Half baked." It was our reminder that the kids weren't done yet. They wouldn't even be done when they graduated. Just like no one would take a cake out of the oven half way through the baking process and toss it out because it was a mess. Of course it's a mess; it isn't finished yet. Of course your students are a mess; they aren't finished yet. (Oh, man I just had the weirdest memory of a song from 80s kids' church - "Kids Under Construction")
There's a sentence that frequently pops up on social media - "When someone shows you who they are, believe them." And I don't disagree with that statement if we are talking about an adult who has exhibited a pattern and shows no signs of remorse. It is likely that person is acting out of his well-established character, and this is unlikely to change without a fairly large intervention involving repentance. But when people show genuine signs of change, we should allow that, even if we are cautious in doing so.
And when we are talking about kids, it's important to recognize that they are not just small adults; their character is being molded by every experience they have. We should be honored and humbled that we are part of that; it's an awesome responsibility. While we hold kids accountable for their actions through discipline, we recognize that those very actions might help them to change (the root of discipline is disciple, so it should be teaching them something). If we see a change in pattern, celebrate that as a success. Don't hold the action they've already been disciplined for against them months and years.
One of the things I will miss this year about being in the classroom is that I won't have the opportunity to write college recommendation letters. Writing those for kids I had known since middle school (and sometimes seen since elementary school) was an annual reminder of how God uses the process of maturing, learning, discipline, and experience to make us older, not only in the chronological sense but in the Green Lady sense.
May we all be older at the end of the day than we were at the beginning.
And recognizing that in ourselves, let us allow it in others too.
Sunday, March 2, 2025
Stress - Don't Avoid It (Teach Students to Embrace It)
This time of year is often one of the most stressful in schools.
It's usually a time with projects because you have learned enough to do something with your knowledge and far enough from the end of the school year to have time to grade them. It's a time with yearbook deadlines, tech weeks, post-season games, and college acceptance/rejection letters. For some reason, there is a week during this time of year when it seems kids are having a test in every one of their classes.
Our impulse as adults is to alleviate all this stress in the name of mental health, but I would suggest instead that it is a time to teach coping mechanisms. Removing stress may seems like it is good for them, but removing stress does not build strength. Coping with stress does. It's focused on their future mental health.
In biology, we have learned that organism that don't experience stress die. Appropriate amounts of stress stimulate growth.
Consider weight training. You intentionally subject your muscles to a higher than normal load. The muscle fibers break down. But that causes them to rebuild with more dense connections. That increase in muscle density makes it less stressful the next time it experiences the same load, reducing future stress through response to current stress.
Temporary life stress also causes us to respond. We develop coping mechanisms that we can employ in the future. We gain strength, knowledge, and skills that keep the same load in the future from being quite as stressful.
It's important to recognize the difference between stress and trauma. Stress is an increase in load over your normal state. Trauma is a load increase that is either high enough or comes on fast enough to break the dams of your coping mechanisms.
Returning to the weight training metaphor - If you are at point where you normally bench press 50 pounds, and you put 60 pounds on the bar, you will likely struggle a bit, lift it with poor form for a while, and be rather sore at the end of your session. That's a stress that leads to growth and may eventually lead to ability to lift 100 pounds if you add to it incrementally as you adapt over time. If, however, you put 100 pounds on your bar today, you will likely drop the bar on your chest and break your sternum or crush your lungs. That's trauma - It's not possible for you to handle it with normal responses.
I'm not suggesting we subject kids to chronic stress all year in order to build strength. I'm suggesting that a week here and there of higher than normal stress need not be avoided. They may look back at the end of it and recognize they are stronger than they thought. They'll definitely learn to deal with future stress better.
Sunday, February 23, 2025
The Antidote for February Fever - Remember Your Impact
Teachers, I have good news for you. February is almost over! February Fever used to get to me every year. It's been a while since Christmas, and spring break is a way off. There are unexpected interruptions to your routine. You may have a little Seasonal Affective Disorder, and so do the kids.
What I always found helpful during these doldrums of the year was to remember my purpose and my impact. Rather than focus on the day to day grind in front of you, remember the long term. You walk into a classroom every day, expected to equip, challenge, and inspire every student. There are kids who will be able to read because of your work. There are people who will go into medicine because of your inspiration. You have students who will carry a love of art, theater, or literature because of you. If are being discussed at dinner tables, and you may continue to be discussed years from now when your students tell their own children about you. You build up students into people with a broader view of the world than they would have if you hadn’t been their teacher. It’s an awesome thing to consider.
One of the reasons I know this is true is the memory of my own teachers. You'll find stories of them in this blog because I write Thanksgiving posts about them. I was a nerd who loved school. I never viewed it as utilitarian, a way to get into college, or job training. I did, of course, love some subjects more than others. History was my least favorite. Yet, I had a middle school history teacher named Mr. Watkins whose passion for the story of Czar Nicholas and Alexandra of Russia was so strong that I couldn't help but be drawn into it. A decade later, I found myself in a Tulsa art museum with tears streaming down my face as I stood in front of Alexandra’s crown and a desk used by Nicholas. I don’t normally have emotional responses to furniture and jewelry, but a teacher inspired me in a way that made me care (and had nothing to do with getting a job).
Students don't always tell you the impact you are making, so when they do, hang onto it. If you get a nice email from a student or parent, keep it in an encouragement folder so you can revisit it when you need to. Keep a box or drawer for the random little tokens of affection you get (random drawings, silly inside jokes, end of the year notes, etc.). When someone does tell you how you affected them, hold onto it, and remember that there are likely more of those stories you don't know.
I occasionally run into former students of mine in public. I have run into them at movie theaters, grocery stores, and even airports. There is nothing quite like the feeling of hearing "Miss Hawks?!?" from across a room. Since I began working at the YMCA, there have been a surprising number of encounters with those I once taught. Some are there to get their lifeguard certifications. Others are there to work out in the gym or play basketball. Some come in to bring their kids to swim lessons. Whether I had them last year or two decades ago, they stop by the desk and remind me that there is impact beyond the year I taught them.
Quite some time ago, I was in a restaurant. A young man excitedly said my name. It was a young hot head a taught in a school where I only stayed for one year (a year I often gloss over when thinking about my career). He turned to his friend and said, "This is the teacher who put up with all my crap." Yep, that's exactly what I was. I don't know what impact that had on the man he is today, but I hope it had some.
The only reason I had an influence on any student is because my teachers influenced me. It's a chain reaction, and you are part of that chain.
Sunday, February 16, 2025
Formative Assessment - Part 3 - Secondary Effects
- lost instructional time from over-adherence to inquiry
- lack of development of organizational skills because Google Drive is searchable and doesn't require organization
- lost focus from attempted "multi-tasking"
- anxiety from large amounts of high-stakes testing
- increased relationship development during an inquiry experience
- students with ADHD not losing all of their work because Google Drive is searchable and doesn't require organization
- recognition of how important focus is after an attempt at "multi-tasking"
- recognition that you are stronger than you think you are when you persevere through a time of high-stakes testing.
Sunday, February 9, 2025
Formative Assessment - Part 2 - How to Know and What to Do When You Know
"How will I know? Don't trust your feelings.
How will I know? They can be deceiving." - Whitney Houston
Two weeks ago, I told you the story of why we need formative assessment, but if I had included what it is and how to implement it, the post would have been far too long. So, I made you wait a while for the practical part.
Let's start by defining formative assessment. If you look online, you will only find about 48 definitions, and if you Google it, you will get a different answer from the Google AI every time (I've gotten six so far). So, let's look to some credible sources. Kevin Washburn calls formative assessment “a teacher’s assessment activities while a student is learning.” Dylan William describes it as “any activity that provides information about student learning and enables teachers to adapt teaching to meet student needs.” If you put these together, you have a pretty good definition, focused on timing and purpose.
There are many ways to collect data in the classroom, both informally and formally.
Informal:
I'll discuss the informal first as it what you will do with most of your day. I mentioned last week that there are pitfalls to trusting the vibe in the room, but what I really mean is don't trust it alone. While you need objective data to confirm or contradict it, the vibe is still valuable. As Douglas Fisher and Nacy Frey say In their book Checking for Understanding, “Talented educators know that the opportunities for fine-grained analysis of student learning are all around us. Each time we host a discussion with students, examine a child’s writing, or listen closely to a question, there’s a chance to assess formatively.”And the more experience you have, the more accurate you will be at interpreting those hundreds of pieces of data.
So what are you looking for?
- Changes in Body Language - If the kid that is usually leaning in is suddenly fidgety, leaning back, or puts his head on the desk, chances are you've lost him.
- Changes in Facial Expression - The girl who is usually sparkling with interest goes a little glassy eyed or stares into the middle distance? She's likely confused.
- Aimless Searching - If you ask a question and the student flips through his book or notes with no evident destination, it is likely because he doesn't know what he's looking for.
- Disconnected Answers - When you ask a question like, "What number would I change to balance this equation?" and the student answers with the name of an element. Or you ask, "Which character in the novel exhibits hubris?" and the student answers "Motif." These students are lost.
- Explicitly Telling You They Are Lost - Students DO NOT like to admit they are lost, and much of the time, they don't know they are. If you have a student actually say it out loud, you have found golden treasure, my friend. Do not make the mistake of brushing it aside. Take the time to figure out where they went wrong.
- Nodding: God bless the nodders and those that make sounds of recognition. I had one that kept me going through the hybrid year of the pandemic. He may never know how crucial it was
- Identify your crucial content - While all your content is gold, you know there are some points on which future understanding depends. Ask yourself what the points are in your lesson that students MUST get before you move on? Plan some high quality questions about those.
- Ask questions in such a way that they can't get them right by accident. - The point of this is to reveal their thinking and identify their misconceptions, so if your question is vague, there is no point in doing it.
- Plan and communicate your means of participation - Do you want to use multiple choice questions and socrative (or Kahoot or clickers or the many other methods of answering multiple choice questions)? Do you want free responses on mini-whiteboards? Do you want open ended written responses in GoFormative? Do you want students to answer out loud in unison? Do you want to cold call? The answer to any of these questions can be yes or no, but you want to decide ahead of time and communicate it to the students. Otherwise, you will revert back to the easiest but least informative method - calling on a kid with his hand up.
- Think about likely wrong answers. - If you have been teaching for longer than one year, the chances are high that you have gotten the same wrong answers multiple times. If you teaching middle and high school, you may have gotten the same wrong answers multiple times in the same day. Start anticipating those while planning. Why might a student answer that way? Is there a misconception they are likely expressing through that answer?
- Plan how to address those misconceptions - Is this a minor thing that can be quickly addressed by saying, "I can see why you might think that, but . . ." Or will it require some time to reteach and practice? If there is a likely misconception that will take time to deal with, make sure you have enough room in your plan to do that.
Sunday, February 2, 2025
We Interrupt This Program - Teachers Protect ALL Kids
To those who have been screaming for the last decade that schools should stop trying to "indoctrinate kids" and just teach them reading and math, please know that you are making it harder to do that. Teachers now have to focus even more of their mental resources on student anxiety, standing up to bullies of all types, and think through what it will take to keep them safe from a new threat.
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